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"Don't waste any time mourning. Organize!"
-Joe Hill
My brother texted the family group chat this quote before he went to work today. I'm not in a good place this morning, but we can't lose ourselves to despair. I know I have a lot of anger right now, but getting into whose fault that is won't help anyone.
Dwelling on the people I will never forgive won't help anyone.
I'm not that optimistic, but hope is a choice we can still make. It's a hard one to make this morning, but I'm still going to do my best. We are where we are, and focusing on yesterday won't change that. We can only move forward, and save as many as we can along the way.
There will be a tomorrow because we're going to make sure there's a tomorrow.
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I can only put this into a wrestling reference:
RKO OUTTA NOWHERE!
The secondary cast are all off living rich, complicated lives while no one is paying attention. 😛
My primary problem with the singular “they” is that I keep confusing other people when I use it. “So wait, how many people were there?”
Do these people get confused when you use the singular they in hypotheticals like most English speakers use it?
My response to people who get confused bye it is to just explain once and move on. Seems like a small price to pay to show nonbinary people basic respect.